How to be a GOOD kisser. . .

How to kiss!

. . Some of y’all really need this and not that I talked to ya ex’s or anything but I’ve ran into some horrible kissers.

To get this started let me explain, understand I’m a lover, and a pro at it.

My kissing story started real cute, I wanted to kiss this boy in my neighborhood- D***, lol.

So me bein a kid, my game was already heavy. I told him. . . “let me whisper something in your ear. . .” that’s when he leaned in and I. . .

Kissed his cheek and ran away!

Ya girl has always been a little shy haha but that’s alright it’s made me go about things differently, and different is a good.

Let’s progress . . . months go by and I am not even thinking about the cheek kiss anymore and my eyes are on a boy from another block across the way lol.

This time I knew I had to get prepared, kiss n’ go wasn’t how I was gonna move about it. . So, I bought chocolate flavored lipgloss and did a simple google search. . .

*types* . . How to be a good kisser.

& that’s where the juice got started; since then every boyfriend or lip to lip encounter I’ve had I’ve been told. . . “wow, you’re a really good kisser.”

So, how do you kiss?

Let’s talk about what the f*ck you don’t do . . and what SOME OF Y’ALL need to STOP DOIN!

1. Don’t be sloppy without intent.

- Ex. You can be naughty with your tongue to be playful bb but don’t be just sloppily throwing it around all in your boo’s mouth & face.. if a ring of spit, it’s spit lol let’s be real, is all around your baby’s face. . . then you’re doing it wrong.

2. Don’t be timid.

- You’re there, act like it and get into it!

3. Don’t be overly aggressive unless it’s reciprocated

- Like if the person you’re kissing is throwin it back then throw it back

So, what do you do?

1. Aim for pleasure & seduction.

- That’s what kissing is for, anytime you start with an intent your outcome brightens.

2. Find a rhythm, mirror the tounge’s body language.

- If you’re kissin a passionate kisser then you’re gonna be able to mirror it back to them how they are and then you too will be a good kisser.

3. Touch!

- Put your hands in their hair (if it’s appropriate because you already know, you can’t be messin up people’s hair all the time haha), grab the base of the neck lightly or with pressure, caress their back, and sensually enjoy their body.

Xoxo. You’re welcome. ;)