F*ck Opinions. Do YOU Babe! & Fix your Crown!

Nobody knows 100% anything and everyone is basically doing the "best" they can with what they have and what they know; which is why humans be disappointing sometimes lol. Good news is though that the only person you need validation from is you. . . How can someone who has never gone where you want to go tell you how to get there or why would you listen to them on your path when they don't know anything about what you're doing? . . As long as you’re on the up & up, meaning you’re not out here doing wrong by yourself or others then you're good.

P.S.A - There’s really no excuse to be a s**t person. It’s not hot and it's sexy to be polite & charming. Think about it. . . but you really have to be it because fake is not sexy, still you can work at it and eventually you'll become naturally charismatic. I've struggled with social anxiety which has helped with observing human behavior, along with studying in University (college is such a boring/ugly word & University makes me feel like I've just stepped into a cafe in France lol let me live), and implementing the tools I've learned to connect better irl w/ all the awesome people out there.

At one point I struggled with apathy, most of us today do, but there's nothing apathetic about life and that's the approach that minimizes you/ makes you conform to whatever the lame social standard is that is not authentic or you. . that then attracts you friends and lovers without personalities/ with traits you don't necessarily want because you're caught in the m*thaf*ck'n hype. Lost in the sauce. You gone.

It's so important to show up authentically and as your ideal self because that's the only way to make the friendships and connections with the type of people you are like or want to be like. That can be a challenge if not supported in your community because maybe you're an artist, LGBTQ+, a nerd, or anything out of the norm whether it's good or bad because when you're pushing the status quo you're guaranteed to get pushback from those who differ from you and they may even be the closest to you!

The truth is though. . everyone has an opinion, it’s the cheapest commodity that we have, and whether you like it or not people are gonna give you theirs; accept that. Especially now with all the keyboard warriors turned critics pointing at everyone who actually works, creates, and steps into the vulnerability of being theirselves.

Back to being yourself. . yeah, you're quirky lol. . .

idk what you're into but not everyone is, that's great though, with no two fingerprints the same why would your footprint of being here be just like everyone else anyway? Who is this everybody? lol

To be your full expression of the person you are inside can be a scary thing, we’re always changing and evolving into what our minds believe we are and a that's why lot of people take on their environment and accept it as who they are. . . You have the power to choose what kind of person you want to be and while you might not be there yet, you can be with time and patience! Embrace that and try to lean in to the idea of becoming, your dream self.

I am a girl who loves glamour and luxe life that comes from Flint, MI (not glamorous). . Once upon a time someone in my family told me, "why are you like this?," they meant bad & boujie. . but It's just who I am, being called "extra" has never offended me, and the feelings I get when I am at peace with myself are so good that I cannot be disrupted from doing me to the fullest. Also . . . we're all gonna die, and with all death I've seen, I know that first hand.

You become what you think about. . . So, I’m becoming a muse for my art, personally.

Who do you want to become?

Think about it for a couple minutes and then write out all the characteristics/vibe that your ideal self embodies. . .then start seeing yourself as that person and acting as such.

Eventually you will have manifested yourself and when you are who you want to be then no one else is able to penetrate into your spirit and trigger you with their opinion, because only when you love you will you be able to hear criticism/rumors/lies/shade & be completely unbothered.

There's people with hateful spirits and true compassion is taking a step back to look at them, read there a**es lol, and then pray for them understanding that they are coming from a limited perspective with limited experience. Please remember too that whenever someone points a finger at you three is pointing back at them since nobody is perfect. . . so they a** can get read. Iykyk

If you ain't got haters you aint popping and when you hear them talking keep it up and give them something to talk about; be the best you can be and give a good show.

Last thought:

People get comfortable with you being who you were so they’re triggered when you grow, don’t worry about discouragement, and know that anything you put your miraculous mind to is something that you can accomplish.

“God wouldn’t put it in your heart or mind if it wasn’t meant for you!”~ Steve Harvey

When your vision is clear so will your path.

I wish you the best of all this world can give and pray that you find more joy and happiness than you could possibly even think of! xoxo bb ily

We all keep dreaming, and luckily, dreams come true. ~ Katie Holmes

“Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” ~ Beyoncé

You can't just sit there and wait for people to give you that golden dream. You've got to get out there and make it

happen for yourself. ~ Diana Ross